If you have ever thought about achieving your goal, you probably struggled to come up with the actions you need to achieve it.

That was me in Shanghai. I wanted to make the most of my time abroad:

Meet people, expand my network, build friendships.

But I didn’t know where to start.

Then I discovered a simple mental model that changed everything:

Inversion.

It was initially created by the German mathematician Carl Gustav Jacobi and popularized by Charlie Munger, Warren Buffet’s business partner.

Instead of asking, “How can I succeed?”, you ask: “How could I fail?”

Once you see what failure looks like, the path to success becomes surprisingly clear.

Here’s how I applied it:

How to NOT meet new people abroad:

  1. Stay in my comfort zone with the same friends.

  2. Spend most days at home

  3. Avoid reaching out to strangers

  4. Never tell anyone I wanted to meet new people.

Then I inverted it.

I did the exact opposite:

  1. Joined different groups of friends

  2. Said yes to invitations.

  3. Cold-messaged people I admired.

  4. Told everyone (online and offline ) that I was looking to connect.

Sometimes it worked. Sometime it flopped.

But each time, I increased my chances to get lucky.

That’s the power of inversion:

By thinking backward, you see the obvious. And give yourself a better shot at success.

Question of the week

How did you use Inversion ?

Until next week,

Rémy

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